MEN ISSUE: Can You Trust Her?

Well if we’re talking about trust issues, everyone faced it. And I mean every man and every woman. But why women once they dropped their heart, their trust went along with it? And different scenarios with men?!

Here is the thing:

Every man has at least one horror story about a woman who came into his life and turned out to be no damn good. Maybe she cheated on him {why it’s italic – simply because it’s too common!} , stole from him or sabotaged his friendships. Whatever dirty deed she did, some women just can’t be trusted and it’s better to know that before she takes off with your stuff — or your heart. Here’s the thing, MEN: How do you know if you can trust the girl you’re seeing? Let us  share some hints that she’s probably trustworthy and some signs that she’s definitely not.

You Have Met Her People

If a girl is planning on using you and then kicking you to the curb, she won’t bother introducing you to her friends and family. Chances are if you have met the majority of her circle of friends, she’s planning to keep you around for a while. Having open, friendly relations with the people in her life is a good sign of her reliability.

Take note of her interactions with her friends and family. Does she frequently have screaming fights with her sister? Are you used to hearing about what a terrible person her best friend is? If she is constantly in conflict with or gossiping about the people that are supposed to be closest to her, it’s a sign that she might not be as trustworthy as you would like.

She is Easy to Reach

Being able to trust a girl has a lot to do with reliability and availability. If you can count on her to show up when she says she will, return your phone calls quickly and be open with her schedule, she’s probably pretty dependable.

If, on the other hand, she’s the kind of girl who breaks plans at the last minute, takes days to call you back and is secretive about plans that don’t include you, you may have something to worry about. Of course, you shouldn’t have to keep tabs on her every move throughout the day, but a girlfriend you can trust will communicate with you on regular basis {that’s just how us, girls work – we can’t stay far!} and not hide things from you.

She Has Normal Relations With Exes

If she’s on GOOD TERMS with her exes, it’s a sign that things didn’t go terribly wrong in her past relationships and this bodes well for your “coupledom”. You don’t necessarily want her to be BFF’s with her exes, but if all she has to tell about her relationships with them are horror stories, it might be a sign that she can’t be trusted. After all, she is the common denominator in all of those relationships. One or two bad breakups can be overlooked, but if she despises every guy she has ever dated, chances are you’ll join the list eventually. Don’t trust a girl who can’t say anything nice about the men that have come before you. Alternatively, you should question the intentions of a girl who has only lovely and complimentary things to say about all of her exes. There has got to be a reason they broke up and if she can’t identify it, she’s either lying or not very observant.

You Have Never Caught Her In A Lie

Some people are excellent liars, but even the best will get caught in a lie eventually. Even little white lies can be a problem if they are told frequently enough. Even if it’s about something as silly as her real hair color, a lie is an indication that she doesn’t have trouble deceiving you. Trivial falsehoods can grow into major betrayals in no time. So if you catch her in a lie, call her on it and ask her why she didn’t tell you the truth. If you have never found out she has lied to you, it either means she’s a champion fibber or she really is truthful and worthy of your trust. Your gut will tell you which one applies.

TIME TELLS ALL

The only way you’ll know for sure if you can trust the girl you’re dating is through time and experience. It’s lmost impossible to know for certain if you can truly trust someone after only a few weeks, but if she proves herself loyal, reliable and honest over time, you’ll know you have found yourself a good one.

p/s:: am a girl, if you know what am saying 😉

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